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๐ ๏ธโ๏ธ๐๐ก๏ธ The simple system that makes you unstoppable
๐๐ Human Notes
- ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐ฆ Before indulging my nightly ice cream habit, I do a set of pushups or dance with my son for 1 song.
๐ค AI Summary
๐ฏ This video outlines a ๐ช six-step framework to achieve goals effortlessly and build positive habits [00:06]. ๐ฃ๏ธ The speaker shares his personal experience of using this system to consistently hold a 15-minute plank daily [00:13].
Hereโs a breakdown of the framework:
- Step 1: ๐ซ Donโt Set Goals, Set Actions [00:29]
- Step 2: ๐งฑ The Smallest and Easiest Unit Possible (Lego Brick) [01:49]
- Step 3: โ The Anchor and ๐ฃ๏ธ The Toll [04:16]
- Anchor: ๐ Attach your โLego brickโ to something you already do daily [04:22]. ๐ง For instance, listening to audiobooks while taking dumps or meditating during meals [04:35].
- Toll: ๐ง Create intentional โroadblocksโ where you must complete your desired action before accessing something else [05:12]. ๐ฎ Examples include doing 10 push-ups before playing video games or learning a Spanish word before showering [05:29].
- Step 4: ๐ถ Becoming Pavlovโs Dog [06:53]
- ๐ Pair your โLego brickโ with something enjoyable, creating a โsacred ruleโ that you only do the enjoyable activity while performing the desired task [07:18]. ๐ฑ The speaker used playing a phone game (Clash Royale) only while planking, which made planking more interesting and increased his plank times [07:35]. ๐ง This conditions your brain to crave the difficult task [08:06].
- Step 5: ๐ชถ The Feather [09:22]
- Step 6: ๐๏ธ Building the Skyscraper [10:57]
๐ค Evaluation
๐ก This framework offers a practical and actionable approach to habit formation, emphasizing small, consistent steps over ambitious, often overwhelming goals. ๐ It contrasts with traditional goal-setting methods that can lead to burnout or discouragement when immediate results arenโt seen. ๐ง The psychological principles, such as anchoring and positive reinforcement (Pavlovโs Dog), are well-explained and provide a strong foundation for why the system is effective.
To further understand this topic, it would be beneficial to explore:
- ๐ฌ The neuroscience behind habit formation and how these steps align with brain function.
- ๐ Case studies or research validating the long-term effectiveness of such incremental approaches.
- โ๏ธ How this framework might be adapted for different personality types or learning styles.
๐ Book Recommendations
- โ๏ธ๐ Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear: A comprehensive guide to building good habits and breaking bad ones through small, incremental changes.
- ๐๐ง ๐ช The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg: Explores the science of habit formation in individuals, organizations, and societies.
- ๐คโป๏ธ Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything by BJ Fogg: Introduces a method for creating new habits by starting with very small behaviors.
- โค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐ช Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth: Discusses the importance of sustained effort and passion in achieving long-term goals.
- ๐ฑ๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck: Explores the power of belief in shaping our behavior and success, relevant to the mental shift required for habit building.