The Happiest Baby on the Block - Harvey Karp (Summary)

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The Missing Fourth Trimester
- Babies are born three months early compared to other animals.
- They crave the womb’s soothing sensations.
- Crying is often a sign they want to return to the womb’s comfort.
The Calming Reflex
- A reflex that naturally soothes babies when triggered correctly.
The 5 S’s - Techniques to Activate the Calming Reflex
- Swaddling: Restricts arm movement to create a sense of security.
- Side/Stomach Position: Mimics the fetal position for comfort.
- Shushing: Loud “shhh” sounds (as loud as a vacuum) replicate womb noises.
- Swinging: Small jiggly motions (not shaking) help calm a crying baby.
- Sucking: Pacifiers or nursing can trigger calming and pain-relief mechanisms.
The Cuddle Cure
- A combination of all 5 S’s to soothe even the fussiest babies.
- Helps improve sleep and reduce excessive crying.
Weaning from the 5 S’s
- Swinging: Reduce by 2-3 months.
- Sucking: Phase out between 4-6 months.
- Swaddling: Start removing arms around 4 months.
- White Noise: Gradually lower volume until it’s unnecessary by 12 months.

If your baby continues to cry despite being fed, changed, and burped, try mimicking the womb environment.
Use the 5 S’s in combination for best results.
Weaning should be gradual, focusing on one technique at a time.
If excessive crying persists, a medical issue may be involved.