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2024-06-14

📖 Education

🚂 Starting a new book: The Staff Engineer’s Path
Answering Behavioral Interview Questions Using the STAR Method

📝 Interview Prep

Today I spoke with a friend about what kinds of behavioral questions I should expect and what interviewers are looking for.

Example Prompts and Questions

  • Tell me about a time when you disagreed with a coworker.
  • Tell me about a time when you convinced your manager.
  • Tell me about a time when you got constructive feedback.
  • Tell me about a time when you had to make a decision with incomplete information.
  • Tell me about the project you’re most proud of.
  • Tell me about a time when your manager asked you to do something that you didn’t think was the highest priority.
  • Tell me about a time when two teams couldn’t agree on a path forward.
  • Tell me about a time when you had to make a quick decision and live with the consequences.
  • Regarding a story you told, what did you learn?
  • Regarding a story you told, what would you do differently?
  • Why are you looking for a new job?
  • Why did you choose your last job?
  • Why do you want to work here?

Some traits they’re trying to identify in the stories we tell

  • Personality traits
    • Perseverance
    • Empathy
    • Motivation
    • Growth mindset
  • Problem solving
    • Getting buy in with teammates and stakeholders
    • Dealing with ambiguity
    • Considering trade offs
    • Framing problems with sufficient context
    • Supporting decisions with data and metrics
    • Leveraging feedback loops to aid understand over time
    • Decomposing large projects and effectively iterating toward goals
  • Learning from experiences
  • Conflict resolution
    • Understanding when to escalate or deescalate
    • Seeking a third party arbiter
    • Demonstrating empathy