⚖️ 2026-11-04 | A Mailbox vs. a Database 🗄️
🧑💻 Author’s Note
👋 Hello! You asked for “an honest take” comparing what we built for async play with the more traditional way to build it: a backend server with a database. This is that post. The guide to the series is here.
⚖️ I designed and built the mailbox, so I’m biased. I’ve tried to say plainly where a database would be better, and where some of our complexity is self-inflicted.
🏗️ The Two Architectures
📬 What We Have
- 🖥️ Clients run the game. All rules, bots and state live in the PureScript app in the browser. Each device saves its game in
localStorage. - 📡 A relay (a Node WebSocket server on Render’s free plan) forwards live messages between whoever is connected. It stores nothing.
- ☁️ A room mailbox (164 lines of JavaScript on a Cloudflare Worker, with one Durable Object per room) stores one opaque blob per room: the latest game envelope, numbered by a revision. Writes are compare-and-set with
If-Match. Rooms expire after 90 days without a write. - 🧠 The clients carry the sync logic: stamps, couriers, uncertain writes, Lamport versions in the room without a mailbox, and the resync table. That’s described in revisions, stamps and couriers and Lamport clocks.
🗄️ The Traditional Alternative
The textbook design for an online turn-based game:
- 🔐 Accounts. Players sign in, and the server knows who they are.
- 🗄️ A relational database (Postgres, say) with tables such as
users,games,game_playersandmoves. - 🧑⚖️ An authoritative server. Clients send intents (“play Smithy”). The server checks the move against the rules, applies it in a transaction, appends it to
moves, and tells everyone the new state. - 🔁 Clients are views. They render what the server says, and when they reconnect they ask for the current state (or the moves since the last one they saw).
📊 Side by Side
| 📬 Mailbox (what we have) | 🗄️ Server + database | |
|---|---|---|
| 💸 Cost | Free. Cloudflare’s free plan covers about 100,000 requests a day | Free tiers exist, but are fragile: Render’s free Postgres expires after 30 days, and Upstash’s free Redis allows 500K commands a month and archives idle databases |
| 🧰 Server code | 164 lines, no schema, no migrations | An API, a schema, migrations, backups and connection pooling |
| 🧑⚖️ Who enforces the rules | Nobody. Every client is trusted | The server. Illegal moves are rejected |
| 🔐 Who can write a room | Anyone who knows the room code | Only the players in that game |
| 📜 History | Only the latest state (about 3.4 KB at most) | Every move, queryable forever |
| 📈 Stats, leaderboards, “my games” | Not possible without new storage | A SELECT away |
| ✈️ Playing offline | Yes. Moves are saved locally and delivered later | No. A move needs the server |
| 🔄 Old and new app versions | Coexist easily. The blob is opaque to the server | The server must understand every client’s moves, so versions must be managed |
| 🧠 Client complexity | High: stamps, couriers, uncertain writes, Lamport clocks, a resync policy | Low: send intents, render state |
| 🔬 Verification needed | Property tests, a TLA+ model and browser chaos runs | Mostly ordinary tests of the server, plus the database’s own guarantees |
| 🏢 Vendors | Two (Render and Cloudflare) | Usually two as well (an app host and a database host) |
| 🌍 Scaling | One Durable Object per room scales out automatically | One Postgres is plenty at this traffic, and well understood beyond it |
👍 Where the Mailbox Wins
- 💸 It’s genuinely free, and it stays free. Nothing expires after 30 days, and there’s no idle database to be archived. If the quota runs out, the client falls back to live-only play until midnight UTC; it doesn’t send a bill.
- 🪶 There’s very little server. The Worker’s rules are a 55-line pure function,
decide.js, which is property-tested and reused unchanged by the local test mailbox. - 📦 Content-agnostic storage is a superpower for compatibility. The mailbox stores whatever string the client sent. A new card, a new game rule or a new encoding needs no server deploy. Old and new builds keep playing together, because the server never parses a game.
- ✈️ It’s local-first. The game lives on the device. The mailbox is a way to share it, not the place it lives. Bots, solo games and offline play all keep working when the network doesn’t. That’s the “local-first software” idea from Ink & Switch.
- 🔁 It’s portable. The HTTP API is plain conditional
GETandPUT, so it could move to Deno Deploy, a tiny VPS or a Postgres row without changing the client. - 🧪 It’s easy to reason about at the server. A Durable Object runs one request at a time with its own storage, so compare-and-set is atomic with no locks. Fifteen concurrent
PUTs produced exactly one success.
👎 Where a Database Would Win
Honestly, quite a lot of places:
- 🧑⚖️ Cheating and griefing. Anyone who knows a room code can overwrite that room’s game with anything under 16 KiB. Among friends that’s fine. With strangers or anything competitive, it isn’t. An authoritative server fixes this properly, and the mailbox can’t without learning the game’s rules.
- 🔐 Identity. There are no accounts. “Seat 1” is whoever claims seat 1. Many features need to know who someone is: notifications, invitations, “my games”, rematches.
- 📜 History. The mailbox keeps only the latest state. “What happened while I was away” needs a log, and design §6.5 already sketches a bounded history inside the Durable Object. A
movestable gets that for free, along with replays, stats and debugging (“how did this game get into this state?”). - 🔎 Queries across rooms. A lobby of open games, a leaderboard or “all my games with a friend” are queries over many rooms. A Durable Object per room is excellent at one room and poor at all rooms. That’s exactly what a relational database is for.
- 🧠 Client complexity. This is the big one. Stamps in the sender segment, couriers for old builds, uncertain writes, Lamport versions for the global room, and a resync policy needing model checking: an authoritative server would make most of that unnecessary. The server would order moves, and clients would display them.
🪞 But Be Fair About Where That Complexity Came From
Not all of it is the price of having “no database”. Much of it came from constraints we chose:
- 🤝 Leaving the relay unchanged and keeping old builds compatible. Stamps ride in the sender segment, and couriers exist, because old clients can’t be changed. A clean-slate server design wouldn’t need those.
- 🌐 The global room has no mailbox at all, so it needed Lamport clocks. A database design would simply give every game a row.
- 📶 Half-open sockets and sleeping phones affect every design. A database doesn’t make a dead socket announce itself. A server-backed app still needs heartbeats, a reconnect policy and a “pull when you come back” rule. That’s the same resync table, with the server as the source of truth. That part of the work would carry over unchanged.
🔁 The Two Designs Are Closer Than They Look
- 🔢 Our compare-and-set is optimistic concurrency control. A database design would most likely add a
versioncolumn and runUPDATE games SET state = $1, version = version + 1 WHERE id = $2 AND version = $3. That’s exactly ourIf-Matchrevision, with “0 rows updated” playing the part of412. - 🗃️ A Durable Object is a small database. On the free plan, each one is backed by SQLite. The mailbox just uses it as a single-cell key-value store. Moving to “a database” might mean using more of the database we already have: a
movestable per room, inside the same object. - 🧭 The real difference is where the rules live. In our design the server is a dumb, versioned register, and all the intelligence is in clients. In the traditional design the server is the referee. Everything else (cost, compatibility, cheating, client complexity) follows from that one choice.
🧭 When Would I Switch?
The mailbox is the right call for a free game played among friends, maintained as a small hobby project, where the rules change often. I’d revisit it when any of these become true:
- 🏆 Strangers or stakes. Public matchmaking, ranked play or anything worth cheating at needs an authoritative server.
- 🔐 Accounts. Once there’s identity, the natural next things are per-player data and queries across rooms.
- 📜 History matters. Replays, stats or a full “while you were away” log.
- 🔔 Turn notifications. Push subscriptions per player (design §6.6) want an identity and a durable list.
And the likely path isn’t a rewrite. It’s growing the Durable Object: per-room SQLite for history, then rules checked inside the object (the PureScript game logic compiles to JavaScript, so it could run there), then moving the relay in (design §6.7). Each step would be compatible with the one before.
🎯 Verdict
- ✅ For today’s needs, the mailbox is simpler to run and cheaper than a database, and it was the smallest change that delivered async play.
- ⚠️ But it isn’t simpler overall. We traded server complexity for client complexity, and paid for it in TLA+ specs and chaos tests. That trade was right for a free, local-first hobby game with old builds in the wild. It would be wrong for a competitive, account-based service.
- 🧭 The honest summary: a database answers “what is true?”, while a mailbox answers “what’s the latest thing someone said?“. Domination currently trusts its players enough that the second question is enough.
✍️ Signed
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📅 November 4, 2026
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